Choosing friendships that build you up and being a positive light in your friend groups.

One of the most common problems that Christians face is finding a successful way to reach out to non-believers. This can be especially difficult when it comes to your friends.

The scripture for today offers a great example of how we, as Christians, can reach out. The passage is Proverbs 13:20:
“Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools will be destroyed.” (NIV)

If we walk alongside people, living as God intended, His influence will naturally rub off on others. However, if we walk alongside those living sinfully, their influence will rub off on us. This phrase emphasizes the importance of companionship and influence.

In the biblical context, wisdom is highly valued and often linked to the fear of the Lord (Proverbs 9:10). Walking with the wise implies a close relationship or fellowship, suggesting that wisdom is not only taught but also caught through association.

Historically, wisdom literature in the Bible, such as Proverbs, was used to instruct young people in the ways of righteousness and practical living. The concept of walking with the wise can be seen in the mentorship relationships throughout Scripture, such as that of Elijah and Elisha (2 Kings 2) or Paul and Timothy (2 Timothy 1:5-6).

This phrase also reflects the broader biblical principle that one’s character is shaped by their companions (1 Corinthians 15:33).

Reaching out to those around us can be very difficult. The fear of judgment and discord can be overwhelming. If we reach out and our words are rejected, it can lead to discouragement. Some people may not feel they deserve to follow God, or they may not want to give up what they enjoy. This can make it hard to show them that while the journey is difficult, God will walk with us the whole way (Psalm 23).

This message in Proverbs urges us to spread our wisdom with those around us. It is our duty to share the Word of God with all of His children. The passage also warns us that if we do not spread the wisdom that the Lord provides, those around us may not hear and be saved.

On the same note, finding someone willing to listen can be hard. Especially in public settings like school or work, a friend to talk to can really rejuvenate our social battery. It’s also helpful to talk with someone about the methods you’re using to spread the Word. Proverbs 13:20 encourages us to share our wisdom while also utilizing the wisdom of those around us.

What can we do?
Find a friend, talk to them, keep one another accountable, and share your experiences. Sharing the wisdom we have been given can be very beneficial, while also being cautious about the dangers the world has normalized.

I encourage you to talk to a friend about how you plan on spreading the Word this week—and then act on it!

Thanks for reading. Let’s close in prayer.

Father God, I ask that you would come into the lives of us today. I pray for the individuals reading this devotional Lord. Please continue to walk beside them, guiding them as a constant reminder to live according to Your word. I pray that we could find the time to reach out to those around us. Give us strength, Lord. In Your wonderful, powerful name. Amen